May 30th, 2011 
Admin Question by LaMorris S: HELLLPPP!!! I want to get her back, what do I do?
The only girl who I’ve mainly been with ever since I got my GED since November 2005. I don’t see myself with anybody else but her. It’s like this, We first hook-up back in December 2006 until I sat there listened to my ex best friend who wasn’t really a friend, she cased me the first relationship from listening to her. Beginning of 2007 the first couple of month, I stayed in contact with her, we was talking on the phone like we used to, I even made fun of her when it was snowing were I was because it wasn’t snowing where she was (long distance) it was funny to both of us, instead of me going playing.in the snow, I just stayed in my room and stayed with her on the phone. This is the bad part, this was the 2nd time I ever seen snow because I saw it for the first time back in 1996. April – May 2007, I was under a lot of stress, I wined up withdrawing from school but they was nice to let me continue to live on campus until the semester was over. Then a lot of good things started to happening to me. I went back to my hometown where she was but my big ego, which I don’t have anymore, made me forget about her. June 2007, I got excited about my first apartment when I out of town, I said some things to her that I didn’t mean to say personally, it was just my ego. So August 2007, we started back talking but she was in a relationship, we were just friends. Thanksgiving weekend 2007, it was my first time home in 6 months, she told me 2 shocking things, 1) she wanted to because jewish, so I was like WTF?? but I told her that I support her, which I wanted to. 2) she told me that she was pregnant by somebody else, I got really upset, it only took me about 10 minutes to calm down, I told her it was gonna be ok because I was here for her. About the first monday in December, I just found out that the school really didn’t teach my major, so I was like this would be a good time to go back home and get my associates and make things right with her again. February 2008, she keep telling me about the dude who got her pregnant, and that keep getting on my nerves but this is the thing, she told me that this was the guy first child and he was 24 fyi she was 20 at time, I was like ok Imma just have to move on because this was the guy’s first child and he needs to be there for his child. March 2008, so my ex bff tried to hook me up with somebody else. It’s very confusing to explain. here go my old ego, listening to her again causing me not talk to her again, come find out one of her friends tried to get with me. So I had realize I had hooked up with just about all of her friends in the past within the May 2004 – November 2005 time frame. Me and her got into it real bad about this, i told her she has cost me the best thing that happened to me in my life besides getting my GED. May 2008 I called Bri and told her that I was sorry and I couldn’t be with nobody else and I wanted her to come and live with me, she told me that she broke up with the guy and she was living with some nice jewish people, so I was happy and we just started catching up, she told me what she was planning to name the baby, we wasn’t quite together just yet. I started sending her love messages and stuff but she never responded. Beginning of July 2008, she catch a miscarrige, I haven’t heard, she called me and told me, I started crying. After that, I started to feel like a jerk because it seemed like I didn’t have any sympathy for her lost, which I did, I started talking about what we was going to do in the future, I guess that made her mad. She made 21 years old on August 23, about 1 day after, I spent over $ 250 for the first time ever on someone besides myself (her), highest I ever spent on my mom was like $ 110 and this was like back in 2005. I made a gift basket, a gift bag and I brought a engagement ring because I want her to be my wife. Last time I actually talked to her on the phone was back in August before she turned 21, for some strange reason, she haven’t bothered to called, tell me congrats on some things like me making the sophomore class vice president at the college I go to, every time I send her a message myspace she doesn’t answers. About a month ago, the jewish lady of the house where she was staying caught a attitude with me, talking about she doesn’t live there anymore. She was in her hometown which is a hour away. I been calling her mom’s phone but she says she’s not there everytime. I still love her, I don’t know what to do now?
Here are her gilfs
http://i101.photobucket.com/albums/m74/dalhasmo21/DSC_0096.jpg
graphics
http://i101.photobucket.com/albums/m74/dalhasmo21/BriL-Mo1.jpg
btw I’m a graphic designer and a photographer just made 24
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Jesus Christ this is why im so glad im gay
you can tell by this run on sentence ur obsessive.. second if she ddoesn’twant to talk to u than stop trying …grow up and live YOUR life
Maybe you should go & visit her in her hometown & take the gifts to her… If she’s not there leave the gifts with someone who will see her with a a note (but don’t leave the engagement ring…)
Good Luck
Wow…that was a lot to read. Sounds like it’s time to move on. I know you hate to hear that but that’s what it sounds like. If you know that she’s purposely avoiding you (for example, reading your myspace messages but not responding) then you know that she doesn’t want to talk to you. I’m not going to tell you to try to find someone else to be with. Because since you are so in love with her, you see that as being impossible. I will say that you shouldn’t spend so much time trying to get someone back that doesn’t want to be with you. You seem like you’re a good guy and you need to be with someone who feels the same way about you as you do her. The way I can tell that she doesn’t feel the same or that she’s trying to move on is by her not contacting to even see if you’re still breathing. That is the evidence of her not wanting to be involved with you. About the gifts, I agree with the person above. Don’t take the gifts to her house, send them in the mail but don’t send the ring. Attach your number to the gift and let her know how you feel in a note. If she doesn’t respond or call you, then you definitely know it’s time to move on. That is like sealing the deal on “get over it”.
FIRST, you have to find her. You don’t have her phone number, you don’t know where she lives.
I’d write her a letter, and send it to her mom’s house.
Ask her if the two of you can start over, and take it slow. Tell her how much you care for her, and apologize for being a jerk. Tell her you’re serious and sincere.
Don’t be running around PROPOSING to her–you don’t have enough history together yet. And, FWIW, spending money isn’t always the way to a woman’s heart, either. Dramatic gestures are interesting, but the slow, steady, faithful, sincere, caring “in for the long haul” type guy is the one most girls prefer for a life partner. Women like a man who is kind, gentle, doesn’t step out on them, doesn’t make rude comments about their looks or appearance, doesn’t try to make them jealous, and doesn’t engage in all sorts of childish drama. They want a strong, loving man who will have their back. That’s what you have to strive to be if you want to have a chance with this woman.
You have to recognize, though, that if she gives you the stiff arm and says she isn’t interested, you may just have to move on–without pouting or calling her names. She might not be interested now, but if you behave like a gentleman, she may be interested later….